With my quest to connect to the other side of the realm, one of the shining stars to help with this is Sonia Choquette.  Her book, “21 Days to Jump-Start Your Intuition” was my compass. Sonia is an author, spiritual teacher and intuitive guide. Her soft-spoken ideologies I have gathered in courses, social media and written word and she always leaves you feeling empowered.

Her book is broken down into weekly chapters with each day focusing on a specific concept to turn on this superpower we all have. She shares stories, both personal and those of her clients, and an exercise to practice strengthening the concept presented.

The first weeks are about understanding intuition.  The exercises are geared to overcoming the doubts as to why one might be skeptical of a gut feeling. Then she gives suggestions on how to strengthen it; the importance of staying grounded and meditation.  All this helps open our minds to accepting that following our intuition connects us to our soul’s message.

Her “name it, claim it” chapter is about expressing the vibes we always get, like a shiver down your spine. The activity is to label these feelings and be more aware of them. For example, her family has a term “zipper up”. She writes, “…zipping up, which is a way of protecting yourself from unwanted influences, like zipping up your tent to keep out a hungry bear.”  When in a situation of such, to name it, “zipper up”, reinforces action on your part to not get caught up in whatever is happening.

Her book teaches us that following your intuition will alter you, making you feel and/or appear changed.  She encourages us to ‘dare to be different’ and speak up about what you are feeling. I think this is a good practice for one’s self esteem and confidence and the fact that it also opens your heart to hear our children is the ultimate bonus.

In the final week, the days are about the finishing touches to jump-starting your intuition. Walking and talking to your God or Angels, opens the communication realm. Laughing to raise your vibration is mandatory. And recognizing when ego is taking over is key.  Sonia writes, “…intuitive people recognize themselves as more than only ego.  They know themselves as spiritual beings in a loving, unlimited, and supportive Universe.” And when we become “Divine Detectives”, we find the answers to which we seek.

This is the book I share with anyone who asks how I can connect to my loved ones better. This easy read makes it possible to do just that. Following your intuition does make for a more meaningful experience here on Earth as our intuition aligns with our soul. And our souls, as we know, are forever connected to the Universe where our children live.