The book, “How to Get Your Broom Back”, is not my typical grief reading subject, but it came to me across Instagram as a book every woman should read when she turns 50. Although I am older than the suggested demographic, I too liked the idea of ‘getting my broom back’. It was a great read, and I will argue with Gabrielle St. George, it is not only for women the age of 50 but any person of any age wanting to live life more fully. The eluded goal of any griever!

Gabrielle chooses humor to speak to a subject of how we tend to lose our personal mojo with age, responsibilities and generally trying to fit in better. She includes, in each chapter, ideas to consider, real people examples and homework of introspection to bring us back to our former glory. The ideal that we are ‘witches’ is more about the power to be ourselves than the actual supernatural kind making reading even more entertaining.  ‘Getting your broom back’ becomes a passionate goal that arises as you read.

Some suggestions are easy like creating a space at home to relish in. One chapter wasn’t for me-I’ve long passed menopause, although she describes this stage in such light that I wish I had heard it ten years ago. Other chapters took a bit more digging; chapter three for instance was about rekindling your flame. “Your inner inferno called.  It wants back in.” This chapter analyzed where we might have lost our fire or how and Gabrielle offers a 5-step check-in to ensure we can get it back.

My favorite chapter might be chapter six, ‘Everyday Magic’. “Your Tuesday called.  It wants to be enchanted.” Ironic that she chose the day I hate most. In grief, Tuesdays are my kryptonite. I took it as a sign. It talks about creating ‘magic’ in everyday simplicity. Finding that perfect mug (even if it is chipped) to enjoy your first morning coffee. Sprinkle it with cinnamon, not for taste but for the ‘witchy power’ it gives you-success, passion and protection. Or cloves for luck and connection.

Or maybe my favorite chapter was, “It’s time to find your coven.” Gabrielle tells us that no witch flies alone. Eventually we need someone. She writes, “A coven is simply this: women who see you, believe you, and cheer you on.” The chapter includes how to sort through current friendships, why sisterhood matters and gives inspiring examples of women who have created their own covens. This is a chapter for any age, any gender, looking for a kinship of positivity.

This was a book that each chapter I would relate to how it could support my grief, my dreams and my wishes for my daughter. She and I have always kidded about our ‘witchy side’ and this book gently reminds you of who you are meant to be and how to both find and ride your broom. A perfect book for the upcoming Halloween season.  Gabrielle’s whimsical advice on getting the most out of life, is a fun read that brings subtle revelations to “I can fly.”  Even when you fly with grief.